I was often asked the question „How it feels to….“ and it’s really not easy to explain people about feelings while doing BDSM and SEX play your emotions, senses and your motivation for those kind of enjoyment. To answer the question „How it feels to be remote controlled by a mistress“ I am going to show you the normal BDSM definition like Wikipedia knows it:
„BDSM is a preference and sometimes form of personal relationship centering around activities that are erotic but may not be sexual, and which may include the consensual use of restraint, intense sensory stimulation, and fantasy power role play…
…Although it’s increasingly common for couples – particularly younger couples – to have „power neutral“ relationships and/or play styles, activities and relationships within a BDSM context are often characterized by the participants‘ taking on complementary, but unequal roles; thus, the idea of informed consent of both the partners becomes essential. Typically participants who are active – applying the activity – are known as tops, those who exercise control over others are commonly known as dominants, and those who inflict pain are known as sadists. These are often the same person, and the terms are sometimes used interchangeably. Similarly, those participants who are recipients of the activities are typically known as bottoms, those who are controlled by their partners as submissives, and those who receive pain as masochists; again, these are frequently the same person and the terms are sometimes used interchangeably.“
Well I am the so called „bottom“ or „submissive“ and finally I never asked myself why I love to has this role. I just accepted it for me, like I accepted it to be a rubberdoll. Being a rubberdoll gives me the most enjoyment in my sex- and bdsm-life however I am not going to write down how I became a rubberdoll. You can read it in the section „The Doll“ or on my Facebook fanpage or even on FetLife and many other profiles.
Let us go back to the question about how it feels to be remote controlled. There are many different ways to captivate someone and it’s not always necessary that you use chains or ropes for that. People can captivate someone also with words, with love or in this case with a remote controlled electro stimulation sextoy….
…read the whole entry in the Member’s-Club!